Today Marks the 50th Anniversary of Dr. Martin Luther King Jr.’s “I Have a Dream” Speech

I am happy to join with you today in what will go down in history as the greatest demonstration for freedom in the history of our nation.

Five score years ago, a great American, in whose symbolic shadow we stand today, signed the Emancipation Proclamation. This momentous decree came as a great beacon light of hope to millions of Negro slaves who had been seared in the flames of withering injustice. It came as a joyous daybreak to end the long night of their captivity.

But one hundred years later, the Negro still is not free. One hundred years later, the life of the Negro is still sadly crippled by the manacles of segregation and the chains of discrimination. One hundred years later, the Negro lives on a lonely island of poverty in the midst of a vast ocean of material prosperity. One hundred years later, the Negro is still languished in the corners of American society and finds himself an exile in his own land. And so we’ve come here today to dramatize a shameful condition.

In a sense we’ve come to our nation’s capital to cash a check. When the architects of our republic wrote the magnificent words of the Constitution and the Declaration of Independence, they were signing a promissory note to which every American was to fall heir. This note was a promise that all men, yes, black men as well as white men, would be guaranteed the “unalienable Rights” of “Life, Liberty and the pursuit of Happiness.” It is obvious today that America has defaulted on this promissory note, insofar as her citizens of color are concerned. Instead of honoring this sacred obligation, America has given the Negro people a bad check, a check which has come back marked “insufficient funds.”

But we refuse to believe that the bank of justice is bankrupt. We refuse to believe that there are insufficient funds in the great vaults of opportunity of this nation. And so, we’ve come to cash this check, a check that will give us upon demand the riches of freedom and the security of justice.

We have also come to this hallowed spot to remind America of the fierce urgency of Now. This is no time to engage in the luxury of cooling off or to take the tranquilizing drug of gradualism. Now is the time to make real the promises of democracy. Now is the time to rise from the dark and desolate valley of segregation to the sunlit path of racial justice. Now is the time to lift our nation from the quicksands of racial injustice to the solid rock of brotherhood. Now is the time to make justice a reality for all of God’s children.

It would be fatal for the nation to overlook the urgency of the moment. This sweltering summer of the Negro’s legitimate discontent will not pass until there is an invigorating autumn of freedom and equality. Nineteen sixty-three is not an end, but a beginning. And those who hope that the Negro needed to blow off steam and will now be content will have a rude awakening if the nation returns to business as usual. And there will be neither rest nor tranquility in America until the Negro is granted his citizenship rights. The whirlwinds of revolt will continue to shake the foundations of our nation until the bright day of justice emerges.

But there is something that I must say to my people, who stand on the warm threshold which leads into the palace of justice: In the process of gaining our rightful place, we must not be guilty of wrongful deeds. Let us not seek to satisfy our thirst for freedom by drinking from the cup of bitterness and hatred. We must forever conduct our struggle on the high plane of dignity and discipline. We must not allow our creative protest to degenerate into physical violence. Again and again, we must rise to the majestic heights of meeting physical force with soul force.

The marvelous new militancy which has engulfed the Negro community must not lead us to a distrust of all white people, for many of our white brothers, as evidenced by their presence here today, have come to realize that their destiny is tied up with our destiny. And they have come to realize that their freedom is inextricably bound to our freedom.

We cannot walk alone.

And as we walk, we must make the pledge that we shall always march ahead.

We cannot turn back.

There are those who are asking the devotees of civil rights, “When will you be satisfied?” We can never be satisfied as long as the Negro is the victim of the unspeakable horrors of police brutality. We can never be satisfied as long as our bodies, heavy with the fatigue of travel, cannot gain lodging in the motels of the highways and the hotels of the cities. We cannot be satisfied as long as the negro’s basic mobility is from a smaller ghetto to a larger one. We can never be satisfied as long as our children are stripped of their self-hood and robbed of their dignity by signs stating: “For Whites Only.” We cannot be satisfied as long as a Negro in Mississippi cannot vote and a Negro in New York believes he has nothing for which to vote. No, no, we are not satisfied, and we will not be satisfied until “justice rolls down like waters, and righteousness like a mighty stream.”

I am not unmindful that some of you have come here out of great trials and tribulations. Some of you have come fresh from narrow jail cells. And some of you have come from areas where your quest — quest for freedom left you battered by the storms of persecution and staggered by the winds of police brutality. You have been the veterans of creative suffering. Continue to work with the faith that unearned suffering is redemptive. Go back to Mississippi, go back to Alabama, go back to South Carolina, go back to Georgia, go back to Louisiana, go back to the slums and ghettos of our northern cities, knowing that somehow this situation can and will be changed.

Let us not wallow in the valley of despair, I say to you today, my friends.

And so even though we face the difficulties of today and tomorrow, I still have a dream. It is a dream deeply rooted in the American dream.

I have a dream that one day this nation will rise up and live out the true meaning of its creed: “We hold these truths to be self-evident, that all men are created equal.”

I have a dream that one day on the red hills of Georgia, the sons of former slaves and the sons of former slave owners will be able to sit down together at the table of brotherhood.

I have a dream that one day even the state of Mississippi, a state sweltering with the heat of injustice, sweltering with the heat of oppression, will be transformed into an oasis of freedom and justice.

I have a dream that my four little children will one day live in a nation where they will not be judged by the color of their skin but by the content of their character.

I have a dream today!

I have a dream that one day, down in Alabama, with its vicious racists, with its governor having his lips dripping with the words of “interposition” and “nullification” — one day right there in Alabama little black boys and black girls will be able to join hands with little white boys and white girls as sisters and brothers.

I have a dream today!

I have a dream that one day every valley shall be exalted, and every hill and mountain shall be made low, the rough places will be made plain, and the crooked places will be made straight; “and the glory of the Lord shall be revealed and all flesh shall see it together.”

This is our hope, and this is the faith that I go back to the South with.

With this faith, we will be able to hew out of the mountain of despair a stone of hope. With this faith, we will be able to transform the jangling discords of our nation into a beautiful symphony of brotherhood. With this faith, we will be able to work together, to pray together, to struggle together, to go to jail together, to stand up for freedom together, knowing that we will be free one day.

And this will be the day — this will be the day when all of God’s children will be able to sing with new meaning:

My country ’tis of thee, sweet land of liberty, of thee I sing.
Land where my fathers died, land of the Pilgrim’s pride,
From every mountainside, let freedom ring!

And if America is to be a great nation, this must become true.
And so let freedom ring from the prodigious hilltops of New Hampshire.

Let freedom ring from the mighty mountains of New York.
Let freedom ring from the heightening Alleghenies of Pennsylvania.
Let freedom ring from the snow-capped Rockies of Colorado.
Let freedom ring from the curvaceous slopes of California.

But not only that:
Let freedom ring from Stone Mountain of Georgia.
Let freedom ring from Lookout Mountain of Tennessee.
Let freedom ring from every hill and molehill of Mississippi.
From every mountainside, let freedom ring.

And when this happens, when we allow freedom ring, when we let it ring from every village and every hamlet, from every state and every city, we will be able to speed up that day when all of God’s children, black men and white men, Jews and Gentiles, Protestants and Catholics, will be able to join hands and sing in the words of the old Negro spiritual:

Free at last! Free at last!
Thank God Almighty, we are free at last!

Love (As Seen Through the Eyes of a Hopelessly, Romantic, Cynical Realist)

So I’ve been sitting at my laptop for a few hours, staring at a blank screen on WordPress while thinking about what I wanted to write about today. In that time, I realized that not only do I have a toothache, but I also really don’t have anything to rant about at this time (hopefully, that’ll change sometime soon). Since I couldn’t come up with a topic to write about, I decided to share another poem. Hope you enjoy…

They say love is a many splendor thing
I think pain and heartache are what love brings
Love is supposed to be the best emotion of all
I believe love is like taking a long fall
Why are so many people falling victim to this shit
Like love is the only reason that we exist
I tend to agree with the L.O.X. on this
Money, power and respect are at the top of my list
I’m thinking love falls in the middle, around 5 or 6
And if you see Cupid, tell him I said, “Flip bricks!”
I know you’re wondering what could’ve happened to me
The romantic trauma I suffered must’ve been devastating
It’s nothing like that; I’ve just come to my senses
And the mere mention of love sets off all my defenses
I’ve been in love a time or two
And I believe that love makes men into fools
We end up in stores holding purses and shit
And answering questions like, “Do I look good in this?”
Maybe it’s not love I have a problem with
Just the senseless rigmarole that comes with it
Who really has the patience to date nowadays
It seems like everyone’s just out to get laid
I’m looking for that deep down, butterfly giving, soul stirring love
The kind that makes you think that person was sent from the heavens above
I want a soul mate, not a fucking booty call
I want somebody who’s down to be there through it all
A partner in all that life brings, whether it’s good or bad
Someone who’s an instant pick-me-up whenever I’m sad
But since no one else in the world is looking for that
I guess me will love I because I’ll always love me back

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I’m an Unmarried Black Man, with No Children

Good afternoon world! I hope this blog finds you in good health and even better spirits. I know its been a while since I’ve shown my face and let the voices in my head have their way with my fingers and keyboard. Normally, I would issue a half-hearted apology and some thin ass excuse as to why I’ve been absent. I’m not gonna do that this time. In all honesty, there’s been quite a few things going on in my life that needed my attention and I didn’t just put my blog on the back burner, I took it off the stove. For that, I sincerely and wholeheartedly apologize. Not so much because I think the world needs to hear what I have to say or that my massive following couldn’t live without me (let me make it clear, I truly love and appreciate anybody that takes the time to read my craziness). This blog is where I come to decompress and I’ve been denying myself that release. I’ve got to do better. But enough about that, let’s get to what brings us together today.

The other day (don’t ask me exactly when because I don’t remember), I was reading a post on my new favorite website, Single Black Male entitled: I’m A Black Woman – Unmarried Without Kids. And as I read, I realized that everything that everything the author was describing, has happened or happens to me so I decided to write about those experiences.

As I’ve said before on numerous occasions, I’m a 32 year old black man that has never been married and has no children. Before we go on, let me dispel some of the assumptions that are automatically cast in my direction when people learn about my marital status and lack of dependents. I am not just getting home from a long prison stretch. I am not “emotionally damaged and unable to love and fully devote myself to a woman”. I don’t “hate kids”. I have not resigned myself to a life as a confirmed bachelor. I am neither gay nor on the “Down Low”. And while there is absolutely nothing wrong with being homosexual, everything and its mama is wrong with a man being on the DL but that’s a conversation to be saved for another day.

The main reason that I am both single and childless to this day is because I have yet to find the right situation. That’s not to say I’ve never had a serious relationship or been in love, quite the contrary. What I’m trying to say is that I haven’t had the right combination of a woman I want to spend my life with and my own readiness to settle down. Hell, over the years, I’ve had more than my fair share of chances to procreate. But that’s not really what I want from my life. I’ve said it before and I’ll say it again: I’m not really built to just be somebody’s baby daddy.

I find it both completely hilarious and absolutely depressing that more men can’t make the claims as me. What the fuck has happened to our society? I think that’s all I’ve got for today, but I’ll probably revisit this topic at a later day and time. So until we see each other again, peace and love…

The Birds, Part 1

Good morning world! I hope this blog finds you in good health and even better spirits. I know some of you (probably most) are looking at the title and thinking, “Is this another poem?” No, its not. Its actually the title of a song by The Weeknd that kinda suits the mood for what I’m here to talk about today.

For those that know me or have been following along, you know I’ve been single for a while. Something like 5 years now. This isn’t really an issue. Of course I would love to be in a relationship, but I want it to be the right relationship, I’m not looking to be with somebody just for the sake of changing my relationship status on Facebook. Because I’m looking for something meaningful in my romantic life, I’ve spent quite a bit of time and exhausted quite a bit of energy making sure I knew exactly what I was looking for in my next relationship. I’ve even put some thought into what I have to offer. Well today, we’re gonna flip the script. This ought to be interesting, to say the least.

First off, I’m shallow. Trust me, this is not a conclusion I came to on my own. I knew I had shallow tendencies, I nitpick about pretty much everything when it comes to my appearance. But it took my best friend to confirm my suspicion. And in the words of my best friend, “You are very looks-driven. Not just about women, about everything. Everything has to have a very meticulous appearance, or you don’t even bother with it.” And she’s right. I’m very particular about how I want the world around me to look. I feel like everything and everyone has a perfect look, a perfect aesthetic. And if that ideal level can’t be reached, I’ve been known to walk away without a second thought. I’m not like Jack Black’s character in Shallow Hall, I’m not gonna automatically disqualify a woman for the slightest “flaw.” Nor am I so delusional that I tell myself that I’m good looking enough to only date supermodels (or women beautiful enough to be supermodels). But I think there has to be a certain level of physical attraction in order for me to pursue a woman. That’s not asking too much, is it? Maybe it is…

Secondly, I’m a flirt. Let me clarify something about this right now. I am not a cheater. If a relationship has degraded to that point, I’d walk away before committing an act of infidelity. With that being said, I will flirt with just about every woman I come into contact. Especially if I find her attractive. I’ve never done it to be disrespectful and if my girlfriend were to say something about it, I would make a concerted effort to reign myself in. But I’m flirtatious by nature, that’s just the way I communicate with women. A lot of women say they have no problem with their man flirting, as long as it doesn’t lead to anything else. But its easy to say that, its a whole lot harder to live by it. But those that really know me, know that the easiest sign that I’m truly interested in a woman is if I clam up around her. If I’m flapping my gums and flirting my ass off, there’s no problem. If I’m acting like a shy little school boy, that’s when you should worry.

Third, I’m an asshole. I know its like the new, hot thing for these little boys to run around and claim to be assholes for whatever trivial ass reason they’ve concocted in their heads. That ain’t me. I hold grudges for decades. My vindictiveness goes from 0 to 100 mph in 2.1 seconds. And once you find the right button to push to get me there, it takes an act of God to get me to come back down. And this isn’t a new development in my life. There was a 4 to 5 year period during the late 90’s to early 2000’s that I got called “asshole” by so many people on a daily basis that I started answering to it like it was my name. I like to think that I’ve mellowed some since I reached 30, I try to make sure that my actions and attitude towards a situation are completely and utterly validated. But, I still have the potential to be the biggest jerk you will ever meet. The first time I heard Runaway by Kanye West, I laughed. I’ve either been guilty of or thought about doing or saying everything he said in that song.

I’m really impulsive. This comes from the fact that I have no responsibilities outside of my own safety and well-being. Because of that, I’m always quick to go shopping for a new pair of shoes or an Express t-shirt that I don’t really need. This is probably the only one of my negative qualities that could be easily and quickly overcame.

I can have a one-track mind, at times. No, this doesn’t have anything to do with sex. If I become focused on something, whether its work or my writing, its hard for me to break away until its completed. This does not apply to TV viewing. I’m just the opposite when it comes to TV.

I hate talking on the phone! This doesn’t mean I won’t call my girlfriend/wife at least once a day to hear her voice, but it does mean that I won’t sit on the phone for hours at a time. I’d rather talk in person. Or at the very least, on Skype or ooVoo. If we’re relegated to communicating by phone, I prefer text messages.

Lastly, I’m a bit of an emotional train wreck at times. This might be the one thing I hate the most about myself. I tend to wear my heart on my sleeve a lot. I love hard. And fast. I hate even harder. And faster. I’ve never really understood why I am this way, which annoys me more.

I think that’s all I have for today. I just wanna say that it truly feels weird to sit here and thoroughly dissect and attack my own character. But someday, there’s gonna be a woman that’s interested in me for more than fashion advice, my writing abilities and sex. And whoever she is, she’ll need to have this information.

So until next time, peace and love…

In So Many Words…

Good afternoon world! I hope this blog finds you in good health and even better spirits. I’m not gonna go into a long diatribe, trying to explain my prolonged absence and beg of your forgiveness. By now, we’ve all come to realize that my writing is sporadic at best.

I would love to say that today’s poem is fresh and new, but I actually wrote it about a month ago and completely forgot about it. Like most of the poetry I write, its about love. I really gotta figure out why that is. So without further adieu, here it goes…

Real talk, I’m amazed by how much I’m feeling you
Can’t count how many times I catch myself thinking of you
I try to play it cool, sit back and see where I stand with you
But its unbearable, wherever you are I wanna be there too
The way I feel about you is all I’m really really tryin’ to tell ya
I wanna be your prince, will you be my Cinderella
That means I’m not just trying to be the man in your life
But change you from living single to endless days as a wife
Because life’s a fairy tale and I’m looking for a happy ending
Please say this can be our beginning

Which Are You?

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[This beautiful story has been circulating on Facebook. Unfortunately we cannot trace who wrote such a touching and insightful piece. Nevertheless, we are sharing it to those of who have not read it yet.]

Grandmother Says…
Carrots, Eggs, or Coffee; “Which are you?”

carrots-eggs-or-coffeeA young woman went to her grandmother and told her about her life and how things were so hard for her. She did not know how she was going to make it and wanted to give up. She was tired of fighting and struggling. It seemed as one problem was solved a new one arose.

Her grandmother took her to the kitchen. She filled three pots with water. In the first, she placed carrots, in the second she placed eggs and the last she placed ground coffee beans. She let them sit and boil without saying a word.

In about twenty minutes she turned off the burners. She fished…

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Florida Court Orders Mother Of 15 To Learn Fellatio

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Tampa, Fla. – Angel Adams, an  unemployed mother of 15 children, has been ordered by a Florida court judge to take fellatio lessons in an attempt to slow down the onslaught of illegitimate children spewing from her vagina. The unusual sentence follows weeks of arrests, court appearances and network interviews.

Judge Tracy Sheehan handed down the sentence after Adams refused to admit she was pregnant again.

“Ms. Adams, as a judge of this court and as a citizen of the state of Florida,” said Judge Sheehan, ”I am obligated to shut down the party in your pants. You apparently have no moral compass to guide your unstoppable urge to share your body with the entire male population of the Florida panhandle, so this court is ordering you to learn how to perform fellatio and how to give hand jobs. If this doesn’t slow your unabashed desire to drive up the…

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ما يخيفني في معظم (Just Read It…)

Good afternoon world! I hope this blog still finds you in good health and even better spirits. I’ve been spending a lot of time lately staring at a blank screen on WordPress, trying to figure out what I wanted to say. I have to thank someone that is becoming increasingly more near and dear to my heart for suggesting today’s topic. I know you’re looking at the title and wondering what the hell it says. Unless you happen to be fluent in Arabic, then you know exactly what it says. I could just tell you what it says, but where’s the fun in that? Continue reading, you’ll figure it out…

fear1Everybody has something that scares them to death, no matter. I don’t care if you’re the toughest, roughest, meanest hombre around, there’s something somewhere that can turn you into a quivering mass of fear and panic. Now of course there are those superficial things that spook us. For instance, I’m deathly afraid of clowns. I saw the movie “It” as a kid and it completely screwed me up, haven’t been the same since. But that’s not the kind of fear I wanna share with you today. I’m taking about that dark thought that we all have, the one that you’ve locked in the back of your mind. The one that can freeze you in place whenever you find yourself having to face it.

For me, the great fear in my life is of being deemed inadequate in any way. I’ve conditioned myself to believe that inadequacy is a type of failure, and failure of any kind is death. Actually, failure might be worse than death in my book, purely because you have to live with the knowledge that you failed. I’m so afraid of not measuring up the standards that I, and those that matter most in my life, have set me for that I find myself afraid to try at times. I’m literally frozen out of fear of not accomplishing the goals I’ve set for myself, while also being completely unhappy with the fact that I’m not progressing towards the life I’ve envisioned for myself. And I think that’s the worst thing anybody can do.

For those that know me, you know that this is one of the few insecurities I have about myself. And its the only one that I haven’t found a way to get around or defeat outright. And I think that’s what bothers me the most. For as exceptional as I think I am, I find myself being held back by own fear of metaphorically falling. When I sit back and look at the timeline of my life, I can’t help but think that this stems from my father’s death. But that’s a conversation for another day.

And with that being said, I think I’m gonna cut this off right here. I’m not too sure exactly where my mind will go if I continue. Plus, its hard to maintain my composure when I stare into the mirror and examine the dark spots on my soul. And I’m just not in the mood to cry today. So until next time, peace and love…